Bump, because I have the same problem of my Outbox bogarting the PMs.
This is confusing (emphasis mine):
Ichthus wrote:Yeah, it doesn't pop into the sent box until the other party has received it. This is a nice little way you can tell if they've read it.
Are you saying that until the message is not clicked on in the receiver's inbox, then it stays in the outbox? Because I could interpret "receive" as the message being written to whatever chunk of database represents the receiver's Inbox, regardless of whether they are even online, let alone read it. I don't know how the scripting works, it's not impossible that clicking on the send button does not send it immediately.
The whole point of this is lost if you keep it a secret.